In Memoriam
Jeannie Kay Mebus Hinkle
Loving companion of Curtis E. Hinkle, Founder of OII

















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In Loving memory of Jeannie Kay, the person who inspired our founder to stand up for Intersex.
— Gina from Australia

To live in a heart one leaves behind is not to die. Je t'aime ma chère Jeannie Kay. Tu vivras toujours au fond de mon coeur. Merci. - Curtis
— Curtis E. Hinkle from SC, United States

I light this candle for our friend's wife Jeannie Kay who passed away last night. May the light of this flame give strength to our dear friend Curtis. Love you
— Mayssa from Tūnis (Tunisia)

Je t'offre mes plus sincères sympaties. Je t'embrasse mon ami.
André, Canada

支持陰陽人團結敬請參予連署
http://www.gopetition.com/petitions/solidarity-with-the-intersex-community.html
— from Táiwān (Taiwan)

Thanks Jeannie Kay for all the time you listened and made me feel safe and accepted.
— An intersex friend from Niger

For Jeannie Kay ... my voice on the phone .... I love you my friend .. may you rest in peace.
— Trisch Debus from IN, United States

For Jeannie Kay - Your Love lives on
— Tina Livingstone from United Kingdom

My Thoughts are with you.
— Sophie from United Kingdom

Love & Peace
— from Tūnis (Tunisia)

Jeannie Kay lived in our duplex. Some days we could hear her singing! She's singing in heaven now, and she's singing your song, Curtis.
— Debi & Greg from Spartanburg, SC, United States

There was always a spark of delight in seeing Jeannie Kay.
—  SC, United States

In Memoriam: Jeannie Kay Mebus Hinkle
— Hiker from Taipei, Táiwān (Taiwan)

Rest in Peace
— Casey Loufek from CA, United States

For Jeannie Kay, Curtis Beloved wife and Life Partner.
— Kimberly Piccirilli - MD, United States

Pour Jeannie Kay
— Nicolas - Suisse-Svizzera-Schweiz (Switzerland)

Lighting a path way of peace and serenity In dedication and Memory of Jeannie Kay
— Taylor H from United States

This is for those left behind as invisible in the world, may they continue to grow and achieve their dreams, with this bit of brightness and the hope it brings.
— Onnineko from Alaska, United States

To Jeannie Kay for her acceptance, generosity and loving kindness she had shown many. She had touched me once and I will never forget it.
— Andre from Canada

I am sorry for your loss. If you need anything just ask. Justin
— Justin from Dublin, Éire (Ireland)

Jeannie Kay, though I never met her, her life-partner is a dear and important friend to me, so this makes us friends too.
— ins from Berlin, Deutschland (Germany)

Rest in Peace
— Robert Stokes from United Kingdom

All my sympathy to you, dear Curtis. May the eternal presence of Jeannie Kay continue to illuminate your days...
— Tanguy from België/Belgique (Belgium)

Querido Curtis mi más sentido pésame por el fallecimiento de tu amada compañera. con mi más cálido afecto. Cristina Adrover
— Cris from Argentina

My thoughts are with a friend who has lost someone so dear, a true spirit
—M.A.P. from Australia

For maria edwards and beverly magon pluss jakie bradman of Kaikohe Baptist for showing me loving careing and respect
— Debbie Conway, New Zealand

for kaikohe baptist how have hurt me pluss for transsexaul woman ie my tans sisters and brother in christ and all people how hurt them
— Debbie Conway from New Zealand

Our hearts go out to Curtis Hinkle, on the loss of his beloved wife Jeannie Kay
— Lynn Conway from MI, United States

May Jeannie-Kay find the way to a better place without pain or sorrow.
— Arthur Cocteau from Paris, France

For Curtis Hinkle's beloved partner, Jeannie Kay
— Jeanene from AK, United States

We love you, Curtis. Your loss is ours, too. Janice
— Janice Myers from SC, United States

For Jeanne Kay.
— Joëlle from Canada

My thoughts are with you at this very sad time
— Canice from Australia

I light this candle for all the loved ones I've had enrich my life... and the love I give back.
— Harry Peck from NC, United States

Dear Curtis my heart goes out to you. In Gods life, you two will be rejoined for eternity. Debbie Wolf
— Debbie Diane Wuco from CO, United States

Sad
— from FL, United States

Curtis, I just had to add my voice to let you know I am among those thinking of you and Jeannie Kay.
— Edith Pilkington from RI, United States

My thoughts and prayers are with you
— from TX, United States

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Condlences
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Jeannie Kay and I were in Lyric Theatre Of Washington . At the age of 17 she sang the female lead of Utopia Ltd- I had a minor role but sang in several "group" choruses with her-I thought she had a most beautiful voice- I have the recording of our performance which was the first recording of this G @ S Opera- how I happened to search her tonight and find she had died is mysterious- my sympathy , and may I add a most wondrous voice has passed. I really liked her-50 some years ago. 
From: John P Ansell   
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My Dearest Friend... How I wish I could be there to hold you in this time of loss of your Wonderful companion. But as I have for almost 40 years, I hold you so lovingly in my heart. Your beloved Jeannie Kay is resting easily now and loving you as always. The two of you have been a great example of true love, courage and triumph for the ones who know and love you. I love you and thank you for being in my life. We will continue the journey of this life as we have... with love and faith. Jeannie Kay loves you and thanks you for the wonderful care and great affection you gave her for so long. I am so proud to be your friend. I love you, Harry
From: Harry Peck   
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Mon cher Curtis, Nous sommes de tout coeur avec toi. Soit assuré de notre chaleureuse sympathie et de toute notre amitié en ces moments difficiles. Nous pensons à toi chaque jour et à chaque instant. Tu pourras toujours compter sur nous, sois en assuré. C'est vraiment un immense regret pour nous de ne pas pouvoir venir, mais sache que nous sommes avec toi dans cette épreuve.
From: Andre et Johanne 
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Dear Curtis, The beloved ones who left this word will be still alive for Eternity, because we bear them in the very tender of our heart. With you and your family.
From: Lucie Gosselin et Cécile Comeau   
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Deepest Condolences to Curtis and family on the passing of Jeannie Kay, a lady of great love whose physical presence will be sadly missed. May memories of her spiritual strength and sincerity inspire your futures. To have shared time with a woman who clearly demonstrated the law of good, and the divine Principle and rule of Universal Harmony is blessing indeed. May that blessing live on through you all and your spirits never lose the connection.
From: Tina Livingstone   
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Dearest Curtis Your world-wide family are sharing a little of your anguish. I never knew Jeanne-Kay. I knew of your love for each other. And I know she chose her life partner wisely. To you my love and support in this darkest of times. To Jeanne-Kay, I shall miss you and the compassion you and Curtis have given to us, your invisible global family. Kiora, Jeanne-Kay: Kiora katoe katoa! Jo.
From: Joanne Proctor   
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Dear Curtis, Please receive my condolences for you and your family's sad loss due to Jeanne-Kay's passing. Sending you love and peaceful wishes to help comfort you through this very difficult time.
From: Zoe Blackmore   
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Dear Curtis, Please accept our condoleances as we continue thinking of you. We are sad at Jeanne-Kay's passing. Though we had never met her, we knew through you of her love of those dear to her and how she stood so strongly with you. We send you thoughts of love and wish you and your family peace, love and comfort. Joëlle-Circé Laramée Dany Vleminckx
From: Joelle & Dany   
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Jeannie Kay, I/we know that you are in a much better place that's free of the pain and hardship of this world. May you continue to watch over your beloved partner, Curtis, as he goes about this mortal life...I only wish that we had gotten to know you better. Peace Be With You.
From: Neil & Marcia

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Curtis, I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Kim Floyd, Spartanburg, South Carolina

Jeannie Kay Mebus Hinkle reposes toi au paradis , que le Tout Puissant ait en ton Ame , nous a Dieu et a Lui nous retournons ; ainsi que je presente en mon nom et a celui de ma famille toutes mes condoleances a notre cherche curtis
said tamcarit (maroc) 

A tribute not only to dear Jeannie Kay but also her dear and beloved partner in life's journey Curtis, their immediate and extended families...

I would like to express the great joy that both Jeannie Kay and her beloved partner Curtis have brought to so many across the world under tough situations without reservation. At the same time as opening up the hearts of so many by their combined generosity of spirit.

I know this will be a very tough time for you Curtis and respective families and friends and thus wish you all the courage you may need at this time...

I am certain that the magnitude of both Jeannie Kay's and Curtis's hearts which were joined together for 30 years or more will live on well beyond those years in the mystery and adventure of life as we know it here on old planet Earth. If I am correct, as I suspect I may well be... Jeannie Kay will live on within all those who knew her and in particular her dearest partner in life that is Curtis and immediate families and others dear to them (even those they may not know personally but have been affected through their generosity of spirit the world over).

I know that Curtis will be further inspired in life's journey from having shared so much with Jeannie Kay as they did for each other when dear Jeannie Kay was alive in the basic of terms as we understand life... Be assured she will continue to live on as she lives on right now in my life almost 12,000 plus miles away... She will do so for her beloved dear Curtis too and more so...

Curtis dear friend I wish you and your immediate and extended families and friends wherever you all are on planet Earth, the courage you need in life wherever it takes you and I am sure that you will be given a light to help you through it by Jeannie Kay and those others too who came across her, she will live long besides us all.

Take care and with much love from both Y-J and I
Chris S xxy in Australia
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In deepest sympathy for your loss, our thoughts are with Curtis and his family at this time.
Michelle O'Brien (Bournemouth, UK)
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Jeannie Kay,

I only knew you through dear Curtis whom I haven't yet met in person either. My heart is broken, though, as if we were childhood playmates!

Rest in Peace, dear one!

Love,
Reade Kedren Sitton (Bryan, TX)
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Many great memories of you and the wonderful times at Christmas in Spartanburg. I also cherish the memories of our NOW trips around the South. Both Gene and I will miss you and are so glad we got the chance to know you. To paraphrase Hamlet: Good-night, sweet princess: And flights of angels sing thee to thy rest. Goodbye and our Love- Liz and Gene
Liz Clark (Spartanburg, SC)
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Jeannie was a unique and spirited lady. I am privileged to have known her. My condolences.
Kaye Cannon (Lynn, NC)
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In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
René Cabaret (Belgium)
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MIS SENTIDAS CONDOLENCIAS AMIGO A TI Y EN TI A TODA TU FAMILIA, UN GRAN ABRAZO DESDE LA DISTANCIA, Y PARA ELLA LA LUZ PERPETUA
POMPEYA POMPEYA (ARGENTINA)
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Minhas condolencias Curtis, de todo meu coração, pela perda irreparável de Jeannie Kay.
Wal Torres (São Paulo)
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Please accept our deepest sympathy.
John and Judy Volk
Judy Volk (Akron, OH)